The trap of comparing your career success on LinkedIn

The pressure to measure professional progress against that of peers has intensified in the age of social media. Shania Tsing, 27, experiences envy when seeing her peers buying properties or traveling in business class, while she questions her career change with a salary reduction. Although her job in event organization satisfies her, external comments increase her discomfort.

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The anxiety algorithm: how notifications shape your self-esteem 😰

Platforms like LinkedIn use recommendation systems that prioritize visible achievements, such as promotions or certifications, generating a confirmation bias. This design, based on positive reinforcement, amplifies social comparisons by showing a filtered reality. Studies indicate that constant exposure to these stimuli activates the prefrontal cortex, associated with self-evaluation, and can lead to chronic stress if digital disconnection is not managed.

Free advice: your boss won't congratulate you for watching their beach stories 🏖️

Because nothing says success like measuring your professional worth while scrolling through an ex-colleague's brunch. Next time you feel envy, remember that no one posts their wrinkled laundry or the report that was returned to them. If Shania swapped her feed for a real coffee, she might discover that happiness isn't measured in promotions, but in not having to pretend your life is a LinkedIn ad.